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There is one thing that every swinger party needs to get going; XXX party games. If you’re organizing your first party there are some key essential games that are a must. They’re great for icebreakers and getting comfortable with one another, because no one wants to feel awkward at a swingers party. You’re supposed to feel comfortable, free, and let loose at a sex party. Try engaging in some of these party games and I bet everyone’s clothes will be off in minutes.

1. Strip Poker – Basically all you need is a deck of cards, there is no betting required. You can play one of two ways, lowest hand must remove an article of clothing OR to up the ante and get people naked faster all high hands must remove an article of clothing after each round.
2. Dare - This is a simple one, everyone writes down a dare on a piece of paper and places it in a bowl, hat, etc. Then one by one each person picks the dare out of the pile and performs it for everyones amusement.
3. Never Have I Ever – Yes, a common drinking game may be used as a swinger party game. Instead of drinking, remove an article of clothing. If someone is lying and you can prove it, they may also remove their clothes and drink. You make up the rules, at the end of the day everyone should be naked.
4. Spin the Bottle – Ah, and old camp favourite. Although this time instead of pecking little Jimmy on the cheek, this version of Spin the Bottle calls for some serious de-robing and sexual performances.
5. Strip Twister – Bust out the old Twister mat and make everyone play. Everyone who falls must remove an article of clothing until everyone is naked. Oh how interesting Twister is when half of those involved are naked and half aren’t. Just wait and see how much fun this game can be when naked body parts are bending in all sorts of directions.

So, you’re interested in attending a sex party, but you don’t know where to get started. Good thing for you, there are underground sex parties just about everywhere, especially in bigger cities. Check out these simple but essential rules that will help you get started:

Scoring an invite: an invitation to a swinger’s circle isn’t something that you’re going to get in the mail. Since most of these groups meet secretly, invites are usually given by word of mouth. Therefore, to get an invite, you’re going to have to be connected. The initial invited are given by the host and then they in turn invite people that they think would be a good addition. Score your invite by getting out there and befriending people who are likely to be in that scene.

Condoms are a must: of course if you and your partner are watching only and simply participating in sex with each other, then that’s a different story. But, if you plan to have sex with anyone else at the party, bring your own protection. A good host with have a grab bag of goodies that will be passed around, but they might not.

Alcohol is at the discretion of the host: depending on the type of party, there may or may not be alcohol involved. Hosts in the past who have had their parties ruined by a drunk could possibly keep it alcohol free. Some hosts will provide alcohol for a steeper cover charge or it will BYOB.

Everything must be consensual: the golden rule about sex is anything that goes on between consenting adults is all in good fun as long as someone doesn’t get hurt. There could be some BDSM going on at your chosen shindig, and it is okay as long as everyone involved in the activity consents to what’s going on. Don;t judge because nobody at a sex party was someone around who will look down on them.

Single guys are usually not allowed: many sex parties require that men come accompanied by a woman. They can usually come with a friend is she is a girl, as long as they appear to be a couple and are comfortable with having sex with each other. Single women however, are almost always welcomed at these kinds of get togethers. Just remember the cardinal rule; be safe, polite and have fun.