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Adding another element to a swinger party – like a theme – can really make things fun and interesting on a whole new level. Think about it, any normal swingers party would be fun, but it would be lacking a unique, creative element. Why not show off to your guests and kick your xxx party up a notch. Here are a few theme ideas that will really get your party started.

70s Party
Pretend you’ve travelled back in time to the 70s when swinging, swapping and all that jazz was in style and in its prime. Tell guests not to shave their faces, or private areas in order to properly prepare for he party. Come on, if you’re going to do 70s theme authentic things will have to get hairy; that’s just the way it goes. Also tell guests to dress in platforms, bellbottoms, polyester one piece suits – anything polyester, really – and leisure suits.

Famous Couples Party
Send out invitations to your guests and pair up random females with random males. That way when all of your guests show up at the party, they know they will have to start out that night with having sex with the person in the costume that matches theirs. For example the two people in the pirate costumes have to hook up, and Kermit the Frog has to hook up with Miss Piggy.

XXX Spin The Bottle
Basically the same rules as regular spin the bottle, only the person your bottle lands on, you have sex with. When you’re done, you continue playing until you’ve slept with everyone attending the party. Sounds like a fun time, right?

So, you’re interested in attending a sex party, but you don’t know where to get started. Good thing for you, there are underground sex parties just about everywhere, especially in bigger cities. Check out these simple but essential rules that will help you get started:

Scoring an invite: an invitation to a swinger’s circle isn’t something that you’re going to get in the mail. Since most of these groups meet secretly, invites are usually given by word of mouth. Therefore, to get an invite, you’re going to have to be connected. The initial invited are given by the host and then they in turn invite people that they think would be a good addition. Score your invite by getting out there and befriending people who are likely to be in that scene.

Condoms are a must: of course if you and your partner are watching only and simply participating in sex with each other, then that’s a different story. But, if you plan to have sex with anyone else at the party, bring your own protection. A good host with have a grab bag of goodies that will be passed around, but they might not.

Alcohol is at the discretion of the host: depending on the type of party, there may or may not be alcohol involved. Hosts in the past who have had their parties ruined by a drunk could possibly keep it alcohol free. Some hosts will provide alcohol for a steeper cover charge or it will BYOB.

Everything must be consensual: the golden rule about sex is anything that goes on between consenting adults is all in good fun as long as someone doesn’t get hurt. There could be some BDSM going on at your chosen shindig, and it is okay as long as everyone involved in the activity consents to what’s going on. Don;t judge because nobody at a sex party was someone around who will look down on them.

Single guys are usually not allowed: many sex parties require that men come accompanied by a woman. They can usually come with a friend is she is a girl, as long as they appear to be a couple and are comfortable with having sex with each other. Single women however, are almost always welcomed at these kinds of get togethers. Just remember the cardinal rule; be safe, polite and have fun.